Sharing friends, sharing hope

My friends from Burundi and Canada... sharing so much goodness!

There is nothing I love more than sharing friends… bringing together people I love and witnessing what happens as they discover each other.  Our friendships, now shared, go deeper and expand exponentially with the added element of our together-ness.  New things happen as my friends share their stories and find their own connections – being generous with my friends has never disappointed me, but always left me in grateful awe.

This story is no different…

First group of women to get identity cards... and stir Idelette's heart.

I shared my friends, the women of Bubanza, with my friends Idelette and Tina.  The connection was first felt by Idelette, so deeply and immediately.  She welcomed these women into her heart when she first heard their story back in December.  So she decided to act – and help these new friends all get their identity cards.  Idelette, Tina and our whole SheLoves tribe decided to put love in forward motion and instead of red roses for Valentine’s Day, they opted for blue identity cards for their sisters – what we now affectionately call ‘blue roses.’

200 blue roses... now all the women of Bubanza have their identity cards!!!

Last week all my friends finally met on Burundian soil – they were finally face to face!  They danced, smiled, laughed, hugged, took pictures and celebrated together.  In a display of God’s goodness, the final 200 blue roses for the women were ready when Idelette and Tina arrived.  This meant that they not only visited their friends, but they got to share in distributing their identity cards!  They got to put the blue roses in their hands and allow smiles and tears to mingle in the exchange of that catalytic gift… because an identity card equals dignity for these women.

Idelette and her new sister-friend!

Tina meets another new friend in Bubanza!

Look at her smile... dignity+friendship+hope!

As I said, sharing friends is never disappointing.  This time, sharing friends meant that all the women of Bubanza got a piece of their dignity.  They found new friends who truly see them and want the best for them and are willing to move some mountains and travel thousands of miles to see it happen.  I think we all, as a company of friends, saw that sometimes the Kingdom of God looks like bouquets of blue roses given on a sunny Burundian day, dancing that stirs the dust and shakes the ground and smiles shared between sisters.  My friends, both Burundian and Canadian, have once again left me in grateful awe.  I am so glad these friends all found one another…

P.S. All these amazing photos were taken by my sister-friend & photographer Tina Francis.

P.P.S. I love my friends!!!

Cultivating Hope

When you walk through Bubanza, you notice the hard dirt and fruitless shrubs.  You see some people walking toward the main road to offer their manuel labor for scant Burundian francs, but many more are clustered around the community with poor health, lack of energy and no skills.  You see plenty of kids.  Most carry yellow tubs of water or gather sticks for firewood or some other chore.

What you don’t see is much hope.

It is hard to know where to begin… how do you transform the trajectory of an entire community amid such bleak circumstances?  What lasting change can you offer?

Our deep sense is that we must begin by cultivating hope.  

And we believe the best hope for the future health of Bubanza is education.  But not just the ordinary curriculum on offer by the government – but a more expansive and energizing educational program that chart a new way forward for each community member!  Life in Bubanza has always been hard and hopeless – but we want every person to see that the future for them can be otherwise.  

Beginning with the young ones, we want to see increased strength in body and brain.  This means getting birth certificates for all children 5 and under so that they are eligible to access the government health care.  This will greatly increase their chance of survival – as statistics show this is the most vulnerable age group.  We want the littlest boys and girls to grow strong because we understand that when they have the food, clean water and healthcare they need their brains also benefit – making them ready to learn!

So far we have issued 100 birth certificates, with 100 more soon to be issued.  We have 800 more to go…

We know that formal education can be a great tool at the right age – and so we are actively working to build a school to host primary school classes.  There are 954 children between the ages of 5 and 10, and as of now only 98 are currently enrolled in school.  We want to see all of them in class one day soon.  We plan on beginning with first, second and third grade classes… since these kids have never been in school they will all be starting together!

While the government offers formally trained teachers and a set curriculum, we believe that we need to supplement that with more innovative strategies to engage, energize and educate them for a world where they will need to be problem solvers and creative thinkers.  We are dreaming of an extraordinary education for each one of them!

Those children that are 10 to 15 years old are considered young adults in Burundian culture and already expected to begin providing income for their families.  We see these 621 young adults as the most challenging demographic in all of Bubanza.  Claude observes that these are the ones who are ‘just waiting to die.’  They see their parents with no viable life, they see the barren state of their local landscape, they see that there is nothing any better on the horizon for them.  They feel doomed to reproduce the same life of hardship.  They lack vision, they lack hope.  Claude is determined to make something beautiful for them…

We want to stare that hopeless down and write a better story.  We want to show them that there is a future for them.  This is where we plan to dig in deep and cultivate hope – to show them that life can be otherwise and we will stand with them to shape it.

So we are envisioning vocational training and literacy classes… so they can gain skills to make a living and build a better community, to not only support their families but see them thrive.  Think sewing, wood shop, animal husbandry, agriculture, business 101… We want to see them light up as they grasp the truth that their lives can be better than what they have seen so far.

Isaiah tells us that people perish when they lack vision. When there is no dream for the future, we perish into a sea of hopelessness, we languish and loss energy.   So to reverse hopelessness… we need to dream big.

So we are dreaming of classrooms filled with children… of all ages!  We want that school to be a humming hub of educational energy for this community of friends.  We want kids to enter school healthy, to learn to read and write, to grown into problem solvers and community builders.  We want them to access the tools they need to succeed and shape a better tomorrow.  It has to be more than just formal education for young ones, it has to be a wide education plan that includes every community member getting what they need to move forward.  Our vision is classroom pulsing with life and activity morning, noon, night and weekends!  Our vision is teaching, training, re-tooling and cultivating a hope these families can grab on to so that they can have a vision for their future!

A big vision in Bubanza means no more perishing.  With a vision, they will flourish!