Haiti: Work, Water & a Wedding

Haiti is a hot, hard place.  Kristy Stark, member of the COF team, can testify to the hardship of life in Haiti, especially since the earthquake that up-ended any previous progress.  But upon her return to Texas she said one of the things she cannot get over is the undefiled joy she witnessed among the Haitian people in the village of Beudet.

Each day as the team entered the small village there would be an avalanche of affectionate greetings from the children, so eager for another day with their COF friends.  Spending all the days in this one community allowed bonds to be forged amid work, water and a wedding!  The benefit of remaining in one place is the luxury of knowing the Haitian friends by name – and knowing their stories and smiles.

Work

Our COF friends spent time fixing the local church, Eglise Chretienne de Beudet, alongside founders Walter and Raymond.  Since it is a temporary structure on lended land, they brought in tarps and other materials to suit the situation.

Water

Two days were invested in well work… finishing a well so that water could be brought into the heart of the community.  How wonderful that God placed an electrical engineer on the team to help bring the job to completion!  With a pump, generator and more digging… water gushed up 180 feet to the surface!  What joy to be part of that miraculous moment when the well gave its first drink to the village.

Wedding

Then friends and family (which included us by now) gathered for another significant moment.  Together we would prepare the fixed up church for a wedding.  The bride was a new believer and member of the congregation, though she and her groom already had a family together.  Still, she wanted to exchange vows and have her marriage blessed by God and her community.

COF friends became the décor team… and along with their new friends they dressed the church up for a celebration.  This is what friends and family do – celebrate together, bless one another, work together for the good of the community.

Walter and Raymond have shepherded this community well with love for children and their families.  COF friends have come alongside as true friends participating in the work, well-digging and even a wedding.  It is a good day when community development gives way to the development of friendships – that is what happened during our days in Haiti!

Hope in Uganda…

Yesterday when we entered the compound of Cherish Uganda, we were introduced to the HOPE principles that fuel the hearts & minds of all who work, live and participate in this community.

H = Healthcare – an obvious pillar for kids living with HIV in this residential community.

O = Love – love for each child who lives here, each child who comes to school here.

P = Prosperity – the desire for each child to prosper so they can be generous in life.

E = Education – each child needs an education to maximize their God-given potential!

These principles infuse everything that happens at Cherish, where kids living with the HIV virus learn that there is hope for them despite their disease, despite the stigma, despite the  other challenges of life.

This morning we were welcomed into the morning circle of the Cherish staff.  We joined in the songs, the prayers and exchange of peace.

No one was surprised to see Donald connecting with one of the littlest members of the circle!

Nor were we surprised to find Claude and Larissa talking about micro-lending and community banking while leaning comfortably on a drum!

Then we walked a short distance from the existing 5 children’s homes to the site of a new home… one COF helped to fund with our Best Gift to Jesus!  Brent handed out the plans for both plot and home, explaining the layout and improvements made to the new design of this home.  Currently all the plans have been submitted and are awaiting approval from the local authorities.  Once approval comes through… the build could happen within months and the doors swing wide open to welcome 8 more children living with HIV into a home filled with love and hope!

 

 

We took time to stand in the center of the plot and pray for the build process, for the kids and staff that would come to this house, for God’s hope to reside here and shape the lives of these precious kids soon to come.

Not pictured is the hard work our guys did… demo!  They demolished some buildings to make way for a medical clinic which will add to the Cherish team’s ability to offer the best healthcare to all their kids.

And in case you wondered… the woman at the helm of all this hope is our friend, Rachel

.  She carries the vision of Cherish forward with compassion, joy and some good humor!

So a great day at Cherish Uganda today… we can feel the HOPE!!!

Jean Bosco : 50 cents and so much more

Anna & Jean Bosco in Matara this summer

As I sat under the pavilion laced with vines and beautifully tied flowers blowing in the cool wind, I thought “what a celebration!” For me, a celebration of being blessed to have known my sweet Batwa friends for two years; for the Batwa, a celebration of 3 years of life on the mountain of love. The place where God has been working alongside them creating opportunities, one after another.

For Jean Bosco it was a day of celebrating freedom. As he stood before his Texas friends his face beamed with glory for the accomplishments he has made in his life. Sharply dressed, in his best, he told a story of when he made 50 cents a month – a story of not knowing how he would end up, a story of slavery and abandonment. A story of sadness changed to a story of growth into a world of prosperity and happiness. Jean Bosco went on to tell us that every month, with his 50 cents, he would walk to buy soap so his master would not complain of his odor. But now, look at him now! He smiled and laughed as he said obviously his appearance alone was worth much more than a mere half dollar.

At that time, I saw a man with a heart worth much more than any monetary value could possess. I saw a heart filled with Jesus, pride, love and excitement for what the future may bring. A heart that gives all of us hope and peace in knowing that alongside God, we can do anything!

We can be anything and that no matter who we are, Batwa or Texans, God will never forget us. We are his people and we will not be forgotten.

— Guest post by Anna Womac

Matara, at long last!

Francois greets the ladies at the site of the new roadside shops.

We just pulled off the road and the cars stopped.  We were told to get out.  There was already something to see… new roadside shops constructed just last week by our Matara business people.  We were immediately greeted by Bosco, showing his grocery shop.  Then Benjamin showing his shoe repair shop and then the shop that would sell Matara soaps to the community at large.  It was so great to see the expansion of their businesses right there on the street, but more exciting to reunite with friends we recognized – and who recognized us, too!  Francois came down and instantly remembered Anna and Martha!

Anna and Martha reunite with friends.

As we walked further in, we found all the mamas waiting to embrace us. Anna and Martha found familiar faces right away, and you could hear Anna saying, “we told you we’d come back, we told you we’d come back.’  Promises kept are sweet… and extra powerful on this soil.

Bosco breaking out into a song of greeting.

Bosco broke into impromptu song, leading the others.  The song made us all smile and sway – and cry when it was translated.  ”Welcome to the mountain of love.”  They sang it over and over, as if to soak our hearts in that love, in the truth of the great love that has shaped them over the past three years.

There is too much goodness to capture in one post, but here are two other highlights.  Our women were invited, for the first time, to help make pots with their Batwa friends.  I think there were squeals of excitement when they learned that the opportunity was extended to them by their friends…

Forming friendships and pots!

Carol and Sarafina talk clay.

Martha and Godis work side by side.

Delphine tries to help Sherry save her pot!

Leonie is proud of the handiwork she and Anna created together.

Then there was the annual Matara tradition – the color palooza with the families!  Everyone gets in the action once the coloring books and crayons come out…

Mamas color…

Papas color…

Children color, too!

Coloring everywhere they can… Carol, too!

Anna is surrounded… everyone with crayons in hand.

So much goodness in one day, it is hard to do it all justice.  When you go up the mountain of love you know how you feel when you come down – loved!  We are all drenched in love – and cannot wait to return tomorrow.  Maybe we’ll actually get some work done… lol!

 

Bubanza Day Three

A troop of tiny dancers welcomed us and kicked off the ‘thank you’ ceremony for our final day in Bubanza.  We were also greeted by the Chief of the Zone, the Chief of the village and our friend and former chief, Ntazina.

The honored guests…

Then there was an outbreak of dancing, hugging and good-byes.

Martha dancing with the best of ‘em.

Carol getting a dancing lesson from a Batwa friend.

Anna getting showered hugs from her adoring helpers / friends.

Martha’s final conversations with her good friends.

Funny faces, good friends!

Then we returned to the house for a dinner among more friends.  I think Little Claude loved seeing pictures of Carol’s garden grown with tips he gave her last year in Matara!  Then there was a buffet…

Yes, we are eating well, friends!

The day has come to a close… we are ready to go to sleep with smiles (and sore muscles from all the dancing).

Day Two in Bubanza

Day two in Bubanza was like reconnecting with old friends – we were enthusiastically greeted by a cavalcade of children running down the dusty mountain, sliding into our car and surrounding us from the moment we popped open the doors!  There was more hard work to be down (like planting twice as many trees as yesterday) but we had friends to keep us company and lend their small hands to the task.

Carol greeted by her fans!

So off to work we went…

Martha and Ntazina planting together.

Planting trees... and breaking to play. Anna had a great rhythm going!

One thing we know – these kids have an insatiable appetite for the camera!  They love to be filmed, to take pictures and – even more – see themselves in the pictures.  If you have a camera, you have hours of entertainment in your hands among these little friends.

Sherry films (and entertains) a group of Bubanza kids

Near the end of our hot work day, and it was really hot today, we gathered together in an impromptu cluster of laughter and story-telling.  The loudest laugh came from Claude when he heard Ntazina tell of a building project.  A while ago Ntazina wanted to build a church.  He started the work on his own.  When you look at it you just have to laugh because it is so very tiny for this huge community!  Even Ntazina was giving into deep belly laughs at the thought that such a small building could possible contain all the people of faith here…  So he ran over to demonstrate how small it is, laughing all the way.

 

But isn’t that the way it is sometimes… we build something too small for the bigger dreams that God has for us.  At some point we look back and laugh that our imagination, our dream or our faith was so small – and how it is dwarfed by the size of God’s plans for us!  In Bubanza, a little bitty church building won’t due because God’s spirit has been let loose throughout the entire community!  God is dreaming of schools, trees, full citizens, leaders – nothing short of complete transformation.  We have to just laugh at a dream any smaller…

Day One in Bubanza!

We made it to Bubanza this morning for our first day of work.

Today was about planting trees, playing with kids and hearing some stories.  Take a peek at our day:

Anna with some saplings... just a few of the 250 to be planted today!

Carol, Anna and friends preparing the ground.

Martha is planting trees and making friends!

Sherry sitting with the kids in school...telling them to study hard!

The always entertaining and kid-friendly Anna!

Martha has the kids marching forward into fun...

Carol and Anna are leading the kids – more games to come!

Sherry and Ntazina, a great Batwa leader, get some time together for stories.

We had a full day with our friends in Bubanza.  Words to describe the day include: enlightening, warmth, teamwork and hopeful.  This is how it felt to be with our friends today  as we learned more about the reality of their lives on this land, worked side by side as a team, played hard (and laughed a lot) and saw sprouts of hope emerging from this hard place.  God is at work – we can all testify to that truth!

Blessings from Bubanza!

Welcome to Burundi!!

The group from COF made it safe and sound to Burundi and miraculously their luggage did too!!

Tomorrow we’ll be having some Kirundi lessons before we head off to Bubanza and the student house. You can check this site for more updates soon!

The Danger of a Single Story…

“I have always felt that it is impossible to engage properly with a place or a person without engaging with all of the stories of that place and that person. The consequence of the single story is this: it robs people of dignity. It makes our recognition of our equal humanity difficult. It emphasizes how we are different rather than how we are similar.”

Chimananda Adichie makes a stunning statement about how we engage with others. Through her own story she encourages us, maybe even exhorts us, to engage with many stories to form a more true picture of a place or a person. When we can hear many stories about a person – he is a farmer, a father, a Batwa man and a person of great joy and humor – we will know him better. When we observe the many stories of a place – Burundi is one of the poorest nations on earth, it has suffered a tragic civil war in the past, it sits on the edge of picturesque Lake Tanganyika and it has some of the best food in the region – we have a more accurate sense of this place that is home to our friends.

Too often we have a very flat understanding – seeing only the poverty of a person or the broken places of a society. Such a stereotype, as Adichie points out, is not only untrue, it is incomplete. You are coming to a place with dimension and people who live in full color! You have the opportunity to see them more fully and embrace the variety of stories that reveal who they are as people and friends. You are coming to Burundi to develop a more complete picture, and as such, a truer one.

You are invited to Burundi to meet our Batwa friends. Part of the invitation is to come and hear the many stories of the Batwa people, to hear the many stories of Burundi today. In doing so, you will restore dignity to the people and place of Burundi. You will have ‘a balance of stories’ that reflect the truth of this land.

Claude and I look forward to sharing time together in the coming days! We are excited to present the many stories of Burundi and its people to you so that you can have the most complete sense of this amazing land!

Claude and I eagerly await your arrival…

Jana Kincer shares…

The very first day in Burundi, the very first meeting, the very first friend…I want to tell you my story.

I was a little bit anxious. I am a very introverted person, social networking and making conversations with strangers is not my strong suit. But I had been praying and preparing for this mission trip for months. I had the names and information about 2 students, Dieudonne and Lyduine. I had been praying for them by name. I was looking forward to meeting them for the very first time. Before I went to the dining area, I said a quick prayer, “Lord, help me to know where to sit. Put me at the right table with the people you want me to talk to.” I chose a table and sat at the head of it so I could see the whole room from my chair. Within a few minutes a very nicely dressed man came and sat next to me. On the other side of the table sat a translator prepared to help us have a conversation. I don’t remember who spoke first. But his smile was so warm and engaging; I couldn’t help but feel at ease. He told me his name was Sylvestre and I said my name was Jana. I asked him about his family. He shared that he had 6 children. He told me their ages and which were girls and which were boys. I asked him what his hopes were for his children. He proudly shared what they were studying in school and what they would do when they graduated. He asked about my family and I told him I had 3 children, 2 boys and a girl. My boys happened to be the same age as two of his children, so we had much in common. Soon lunch was over and it was time to watch the Burundian drummers perform. Using gestures and smiles, I encouraged him to sit next to me as we watched the performances. What a surprise it was to me when they announced that the students were here to greet us and perform a ceremonial dance! As the students were standing near the pavilion, my translator, Aloys, leaned over and said, “That boy in the striped shirt is Sylvestre’s oldest son.” I spotted the boy, but we didn’t make eye contact. After the ceremonial dance was over, the students started grabbing the Texans and inviting us to dance on the beach. It was then that I met my students, Lyduine and Dieudonne, face to face. To my amazement and great joy, the boy in the striped shirt was MY STUDENT! Dieudonne was Sylvestre’s son! It’s no surprise to me that God had that planned from the beginning.

Later that afternoon during tea time, Sylvestre came and found me. He shared with me that when he and I talked at lunch he was very touched. He felt a connection between us, mother to father, both sharing our pride and hopes for our children. I told him it was just the beginning of a lifetime long friendship between two families.

I will always remember Sylvestre as my very first Mutwa friend. He has and his family hold a special place in my heart. I shall never forget them.